Relationships
Pimsleur language system review—old but still good
The Pimsleur language program offers a framework you can use to learn a language. I’ve used the program. Here are my experiences.
How to use Big Stick Energy to survive the Prisoner’s Dilemma
Big Stick Policy, coupled with Game Theory’s Prisoner’s Dilemma problem, provides a framework for peaceful interactions.
8 Counterintuitive Strategies To Make A Relationship Last
This post blends my personal experience, general observations, and scientific research about what makes a relationship a fruitful, positive experience.
The Stoic Street Smarts way to deal with bullies
Learn how bullies think and how to deal with them. This advice is for more than just kids in school.
How take advantage of weak ties in your life
“It’s not what you know, but who,” but how do we use it to our advantage? The Theory of Weak Ties is here to save the day.
When It’s Time to Say Goodbye: 4 Signs a Friendship Has Run Its Course
Is it time to end a friendship? This article will tell you the four times you must cut it loose.
Federal informants and diplomats: Do you know who you’re dealing with?
Some people can take your life with impunity. They won’t even be tried. This is why staying calm and always knowing who you’re dealing with is important.
Waiting until marriage—why I’m still a virgin
A beautiful woman who has committed to waiting until marriage to have sex gives her thoughts, feelings, and expectations.
Why you want revenge—and why you shouldn’t get it
Revenge costs you more than you think. Not only will it not make things right, it usually makes things MUCH worse. Here’s why.
How to get a boyfriend: From a guy’s perspective
Practical tips for woman to improve your personality, enhance your attractiveness, and find the perfect boyfriend for you.
How to look more masculine (effortlessly exude masculinity)
Discover how to look more masculine and effortlessly exude masculinity from your wardrobe to your conversations
Why old friendships can be like scabs and scars
There comes a point in every person’s development where they outgrow old friendships. Here are the signs.
The 18 best manly hobbies
The ultimate list of hobbies for men: 18 ideas for how to use your time to be more unique, attractive, and creative during your downtime.
Dad to Dad - How to prepare for fatherhood
Principles to prepare for fatherhood that’ll make you unstoppable in all areas of life plus a quick baby essentials checklist.
How to attract a man, from a man’s perspective
This is how to really attract a high-value man, from a man’s perspective.
Here’s what happens when you get a girlfriend
Wondering about your first girlfriend? Here’s what happens when you get a girlfriend.
Signs a girl likes you (and signs she doesn’t)
Want to know if you’re more than friends? Here are the signs a girl likes you romantically
How to become more physically attractive to women
Physical attractiveness is cultivated one step at a time. Here are some tips that will help you attract the women that you want in your life.
Problems growing up with an absent father(and how to fix them)
Fatherless homes lack examples for boys to follow into becoming men. This article provides solutions for the children of absent fathers.
How to be a man: The 9 qualities of masculinity
All boys must develop these nine qualities of a masculine man to achieve their greatest potential. They are the passage into manhood.
A better way to deal with annoying parents
There’s no need to argue, parents just don’t understand. Discover how to cope with annoying parents with compassion and maintain your sanity.
How to seduce a woman, the ethical way
If you’re tired of reading stuff written by sleazy pick-up artists, this is an ethical guide with no tricks or manipulation.
Strategies to be patient in a relationship
If you lose your cool, you can ruin your relationship. Win in love, overcome differences, and master life by learning how to be patient in a relationship.
How to cope with losing someone you love
Losing someone you love can leave you feeling lost. Here’s what to do when your grief and sorrow make getting on with your life seem impossible.
9 ways to be a high-value woman to meet a high-value man
Here are some specific steps to follow to become a high-value woman that is able to meet and be with a high-value man.
7 reasons it’s hard to make friends (+ tips that work)
Discover why it’s so hard to make friends and practical ways to expand your social circle. A must-read for people having trouble connecting with others.
How to tell a girl you like her (hint: you don’t)
Feeling butterflies in your belly for a special girl? Here’s what to do before pouring out your heart
How to be a better boyfriend
What always works isn’t always what’s obvious. This article gives an unconventional look at how to be a good boyfriend.
The 5 most important qualities of a good teacher
Being a great teacher boils down to 5 non-negotiable qualities. From my experience teaching and watching other teachers, I present them to you here.
How to stand up for yourself in a relationship
If you stand for nothing, you’ll fall for anything, even in your romantic relationships. Here’s how to stand up for yourself in a relationship.
How often do couples fight?
All couples fight, but how much fighting is considered healthy? Find out here according to experts. Also, find out how to fight less if you fight too much.
“Klandestine Relationships” by Daryl Davis: 12 lessons
Daryl Davis is a Black man who has friends in the Ku Klux Klan. He wrote about his experiences. This post explores the big ideas he discusses.
How to take the lead in a relationship
Whether you’re single or have been married for years, here’s how to be a leader in your relationship.
Accidental Courtesy: Daryl Davis, Race & America quotes
Accidental Courtesy follows Daryl Davis, a black jazz musician, who befriends members of the Ku Klux Klan in hopes of converting them and stopping hate.
How to stand up for yourself: Practical solutions that work
Don’t be a pushover. Follow these practical steps to standing up for yourself and take back control of your life.
How to develop the courage to live for yourself
Develop the courage to prioritize yourself, stop people-pleasing, and live a life you love. Warning: people may hate you for choosing to love yourself.
What to do when someone hates you for no reason
Just because people don’t like you, doesn’t mean you have to dislike yourself. Here’s what to if you have haters.
Hobbies to make friends (and what to do once you’re there)
How to stop being lonely and use hobbies to make new friends. Using hobbies and interests is—by far—the best way to meet new people.
How to get closer to a friend
Tired of surface-level relationships? Want to be closer to the friends you have? This article shows you how to be closer with friends & loved ones
How to not be shy around girls: 7 ways that work
Get nervous and twitchy around women? You’re not alone. In this article, I’ll show you how to stop being shy around girls and be an interesting guy.
Do women care about money? 7 reasons the answer is yes
Are all women gold-diggers? Not exactly, but they don’t want to date broke men. Here’s why money is so important to the opposite sex
How to overcome fear of rejection and meet women
Worried about getting rejected when you talk to girls? Interested in meeting women but not sure where to start? Start here.
How to be the most interesting man in any room
Discover actionable steps you can take to be more interesting, expand your mind, and tap into a life you can get excited about
Personal magnetism: How to be more charismatic
Personal magnetism is a superpower. Discover how to be more charismatic, attract more people, and captivate no matter where you are.
How to be likeable: 5 ways to increase your emotional intelligence
Being a likable person is the ultimate form of social currency in personal, romantic, and business relationships. Here’s how to do it.
Socially awkward? Here’s how to get over it
If you spend too much time in your lead, you won’t be able to live. Stop overthinking every conversation and learn how to not be socially awkward.
How to tell if you’re an attractive guy
Want to know if you’ve got more going for you than you think? Read this article on how to tell if you’re an attractive guy.
How to forgive your parents
Your parents are only human. Your challenge is remembering that despite the mistakes they may have made, they did the best they could with you.
7 hobbies to meet women (effective)
To date successfully, you need hobbies that make you seem confident and interesting to women. Here’s my framework for picking hobbies to meet women.
The 4 unfakeable traits of a high value man
A high-value man has hit a standard in these 4 areas. Otherwise, he’s not high-value. This article tells you the 4 unfakeable traits of a high-value man.
A man tells you the 10 major red flags in men
These are the 10 major red flags to look out for when dating a guy. If a guy has any one of these, you better end it immediately.
How to stop hating someone and holding grudges
When you hate someone, you’re drinking poison and expecting them to die. Learn how to stop hurting yourself with and get over your hate of others
15 ways to finally get over someone you loved
Personal experience, anecdotal evidence, and scientific experiments combine to teach you the best way to get over someone who’s broken your heart.
How to have fun and socialize sober
Most people have no idea how to socialize without the aid of alcohol and have fun sober. I’ve been having fun sober since 12/23/13. Here’s how to do it.
Why people hate you (5 most common reasons)
Having haters sucks, but it’s part of life. In this article I not only tell you why you have haters, but what to do about them.
How to give tough love
Giving tough love can be terrifying. But if you truly care about someone, you must be prepared to help them face the uncomfortable facts
How to be an attractive man (no-BS guide)
What are the 20% of things responsible for 80% of your attractiveness and success with women? Learn all the skills and habits you need to be more attractive.
How to let go of the past: 6 steps to finally move on
Being able to let go of the past was key to my sobriety and getting my life together. Learn how I released the past and made progress.
How to be chill in 5 steps
This article will teach the techniques I use to remain ”super chill” and calm even when things get crazy.
Is karma real? 3 life lessons from a troll
You never know who’s paying attention on social media. An internet troll learns that what goes around comes around and that karma is a bitch.
6 signs of mental and emotional maturity
How do you become more mature and improve your quality of life? Here are 6 major signs of mental and emotional maturity that you can start to follow.
Relationship and dating advice for men: 12 rules
Not every guy wants to be a lifelong playboy, so I’m here to teach men how to have a happy relationship.
6 reasons to be grateful
Gratitude can make any situation better, but only if you understand it. Learn how and why to express gratitude.
You can’t force relationships to develop
Learn why you can’t force love. Impatient, insecure, or damaged people try to force a relationship to develop quickly.
How to get into a relationship
If you can’t spot the red flags, you’re in big trouble. This article teaches men how to effectively vet women and successfully get into a relationship.