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No Rite of Passage is Why Modern Men Are Weak

No Rite of Passage is Why Modern Men Are Weak

Growing up in the projects showed me what happens when fathers and rites of passage disappear—and why modern masculinity is collapsing across America.

Masculinity identity and male development
Dec 24, 2025
The REAL reason why men MUST learn how to fight—it's not what you think!

The REAL reason why men MUST learn how to fight—it’s not what you think!

Learning how to fight isn’t about violence—it’s about confidence, deterrence, and capability. This essay explains why being physically capable changes how you move through the world and keeps danger from finding you.

Masculinity identity and male development
Dec 18, 2025
How Missouri’s Charity Boxing Night Builds More Than Just Fighters

How Missouri’s Charity Boxing Night Builds More Than Just Fighters

Boxing can be used to raise money for some incredible causes. Learn more about the Budweiser Guns and Hoses charity event.

Boxing and combat fundamentals
Nov 15, 2025
I was in the Red Pill community. Now I hate it. Here's why

I was in the Red Pill community. Now I hate it. Here’s why

I spent years inside the red pill movement. Here’s how it traps men in anger and keeps them from true growth, connection, and legacy.

Social dyanamics family and human relationships
Jun 15, 2025
Parenting is hard for reasons you don't expect

Parenting is hard for reasons you don’t expect

I never expected parenthood would reshape my view of my own upbringing. Growing up with an abusive mother and absent father, I developed survival skills that made me resilient. I’ve gained unexpected empathy for my parents’ struggles. I’ve learned that forgiveness starts with understanding.

Social dyanamics family and human relationships
Jan 26, 2025
Stop Swallowing Your Words

Stop Swallowing Your Words

Learn how professional voice training, alongside activities like boxing and karaoke, can help address deep-rooted trauma responses and improve confidence in both personal and professional settings.

Self discipline willpower and self control
Nov 06, 2024
Self-discipline leads to self-respect

Self-discipline leads to self-respect

Self-discipline and self-respect are intimately related. When you build up one, you build up the other. This post explains why and I give you an example of how it helped me to get sober.

Self discipline willpower and self control
Sep 23, 2024
How to get a boyfriend— From a guy’s perspective

How to get a boyfriend: From a guy’s perspective

Practical tips for woman to improve your personality, enhance your attractiveness, and find the perfect boyfriend for you.

Dating attraction and romantic relationships
Mar 30, 2023
7 things that happen when you have a baby

7 things that happen when you have a baby

I became a father for the first time in 2022. There are a lot of things you never expect. Here is my perspective on what happens when you have a baby.

Social dyanamics family and human relationships
Mar 16, 2023
How to look more masculine (effortlessly exude masculinity)

How to look more masculine (effortlessly exude masculinity)

Discover how to look more masculine and effortlessly exude masculinity from your wardrobe to your conversations

Dating attraction and romantic relationships
Mar 09, 2023
The 18 best manly hobbies

The 18 best manly hobbies

The ultimate list of hobbies for men: 18 ideas for how to use your time to be more unique, attractive, and creative during your downtime.

Dating attraction and romantic relationships
Mar 02, 2023
Dad to Dad - How to prepare for fatherhood

Dad to Dad - How to prepare for fatherhood

Principles to prepare for fatherhood that’ll make you unstoppable in all areas of life plus a quick baby essentials checklist.

Social dyanamics family and human relationships
Feb 16, 2023
Here’s how to mature as a man

Here’s how to mature as a man

If I had a time machine, here’s what I’d tell my younger on how to mature as a man.

Masculinity identity and male development
Jan 18, 2023
How to attract a man, from a man’s perspective

How to attract a man, from a man’s perspective

This is how to really attract a high-value man, from a man’s perspective.

Dating attraction and romantic relationships
Jan 15, 2023
Here’s what happens when you get a girlfriend

Here’s what happens when you get a girlfriend

Wondering about your first girlfriend? Here’s what happens when you get a girlfriend.

Dating attraction and romantic relationships
Dec 15, 2022
Signs a girl likes you (and signs she doesn’t)

Signs a girl likes you (and signs she doesn’t)

Want to know if you’re more than friends? Here are the signs a girl likes you romantically

Dating attraction and romantic relationships
Dec 08, 2022
Should I shave my head?— Surprising pros and cons

Should I shave my head?: Surprising pros and cons

To shave your head or not? As someone who has rocked the bald head but currently chooses not to, I give you my opinion on when you should—or shouldn’t.

Dating attraction and romantic relationships
Dec 01, 2022
Ed Latimore hair loss prevention and maintenance protocol

Ed Latimore hair loss prevention and maintenance protocol

After my FUE transplant, I needed to put together a program to keep the hair I had left. This protocol was born from what I figured out.

Dating attraction and romantic relationships
Nov 06, 2022
How to dress like a man (beginner's guide)

How to dress like a man (beginner’s guide)

The way you dress tells a lot about you. These tips will teach you how to dress like the man you want to be.

Dating attraction and romantic relationships
Nov 03, 2022
How to dress a muscular male body

How to dress a muscular male body

How muscular men can enhance physical attractiveness with better clothing choices

Dating attraction and romantic relationships
Aug 02, 2022
How to become more physically attractive to women

How to become more physically attractive to women

Physical attractiveness is cultivated one step at a time. Here are some tips that will help you attract the women that you want in your life.

Dating attraction and romantic relationships
Jul 26, 2022
10 ways for any man to look taller

10 ways for any man to look taller

These style tips will not only make you look taller, but some of them may actually increase your height.

Dating attraction and romantic relationships
Jul 03, 2022
Problems growing up with an absent father(and how to fix them)

Problems growing up with an absent father(and how to fix them)

Fatherless homes lack examples for boys to follow into becoming men. This article provides solutions for the children of absent fathers.

Social dyanamics family and human relationships
Jun 06, 2022
How to be a man— The 9 qualities of masculinity

How to be a man: The 9 qualities of masculinity

All boys must develop these nine qualities of a masculine man to achieve their greatest potential. They are the passage into manhood.

Masculinity identity and male development
Jun 05, 2022
A better way to deal with annoying parents

A better way to deal with annoying parents

There’s no need to argue, parents just don’t understand. Discover how to cope with annoying parents with compassion and maintain your sanity.

Social dyanamics family and human relationships
Jun 01, 2022
How to seduce a woman, the ethical way

How to seduce a woman, the ethical way

If you’re tired of reading stuff written by sleazy pick-up artists, this is an ethical guide with no tricks or manipulation.

Dating attraction and romantic relationships
Apr 28, 2022
How to be an adult— 6 major markers of adulthood

How to be an adult: 6 major markers of adulthood

If you stop doing just these 6 things, you’ll be an adult by default. Learn which things to not do if you want to be taken seriously as a grown-up.

Masculinity identity and male development
Apr 10, 2022
Strategies to be patient in a relationship

Strategies to be patient in a relationship

If you lose your cool, you can ruin your relationship. Win in love, overcome differences, and master life by learning how to be patient in a relationship.

Dating attraction and romantic relationships
Apr 05, 2022
Dealing with the death of a relative

Dealing with the death of a relative

Losing someone you love can leave you feeling lost. Here’s what to do when your grief and sorrow make getting on with your life seem impossible.

Social dyanamics family and human relationships
Mar 08, 2022
9 ways to be a high-value woman to meet a high-value man

9 ways to be a high-value woman to meet a high-value man

Here are some specific steps to follow to become a high-value woman that is able to meet and be with a high-value man.

Dating attraction and romantic relationships
Feb 02, 2022
7 reasons it’s hard to make friends (+ tips that work)

7 reasons it’s hard to make friends (+ tips that work)

Discover why it’s so hard to make friends and practical ways to expand your social circle. A must-read for people having trouble connecting with others.

Social dyanamics family and human relationships
Feb 01, 2022
How to tell a girl you like her (hint— you don’t)

How to tell a girl you like her (hint: you don’t)

Feeling butterflies in your belly for a special girl? Here’s what to do before pouring out your heart

Dating attraction and romantic relationships
Jan 25, 2022
How to be a better boyfriend

How to be a better boyfriend

What always works isn’t always what’s obvious. This article gives an unconventional look at how to be a good boyfriend.

Dating attraction and romantic relationships
Jan 18, 2022
How to stand up for yourself in a relationship

How to stand up for yourself in a relationship

If you stand for nothing, you’ll fall for anything, even in your romantic relationships. Here’s how to stand up for yourself in a relationship.

Dating attraction and romantic relationships
Dec 15, 2021
How often do couples fight?

How often do couples fight?

All couples fight, but how much fighting is considered healthy? Find out here according to experts. Also, find out how to fight less if you fight too much.

Dating attraction and romantic relationships
Dec 08, 2021
How to take the lead in a relationship

How to take the lead in a relationship

Whether you’re single or have been married for years, here’s how to be a leader in your relationship.

Dating attraction and romantic relationships
Nov 17, 2021
How to stand up for yourself— Practical solutions that work

How to stand up for yourself: Practical solutions that work

Don’t be a pushover. Follow these practical steps to standing up for yourself and take back control of your life.

Social dyanamics family and human relationships
Nov 10, 2021
How to develop the courage to live for yourself

How to develop the courage to live for yourself

Develop the courage to prioritize yourself, stop people-pleasing, and live a life you love. Warning: people may hate you for choosing to love yourself.

Masculinity identity and male development
Nov 04, 2021
What to do when someone hates you for no reason

What to do when someone hates you for no reason

Just because people don’t like you, doesn’t mean you have to dislike yourself. Here’s what to if you have haters.

Social dyanamics family and human relationships
Oct 20, 2021
Hobbies to make friends (and what to do once you're there)

Hobbies to make friends (and what to do once you’re there)

How to stop being lonely and use hobbies to make new friends. Using hobbies and interests is—by far—the best way to meet new people.

Social dyanamics family and human relationships
Oct 07, 2021
How to get closer to a friend

How to get closer to a friend

Tired of surface-level relationships? Want to be closer to the friends you have? This article shows you how to be closer with friends & loved ones

Social dyanamics family and human relationships
Sep 30, 2021
How to not be shy around girls— 7 ways that work

How to not be shy around girls: 7 ways that work

Get nervous and twitchy around women? You’re not alone. In this article, I’ll show you how to stop being shy around girls and be an interesting guy.

Dating attraction and romantic relationships
Sep 23, 2021
Do women care about money? 7 reasons the answer is yes

Do women care about money? 7 reasons the answer is yes

Are all women gold-diggers? Not exactly, but they don’t want to date broke men. Here’s why money is so important to the opposite sex

Dating attraction and romantic relationships
Sep 17, 2021
How to tell if you're an attractive guy

How to tell if you’re an attractive guy

Want to know if you’ve got more going for you than you think? Read this article on how to tell if you’re an attractive guy.

Dating attraction and romantic relationships
Aug 13, 2021
7 hobbies to meet women (effective)

7 hobbies to meet women (effective)

To date successfully, you need hobbies that make you seem confident and interesting to women. Here’s my framework for picking hobbies to meet women.

Dating attraction and romantic relationships
Aug 09, 2021
The 4 unfakeable traits of a high value man

The 4 unfakeable traits of a high value man

A high-value man has hit a standard in these 4 areas. Otherwise, he’s not high-value. This article tells you the 4 unfakeable traits of a high-value man.

Masculinity identity and male development
Aug 05, 2021
A man tells you the 10 major red flags in men

A man tells you the 10 major red flags in men

These are the 10 major red flags to look out for when dating a guy. If a guy has any one of these, you better end it immediately.

Masculinity identity and male development
Aug 04, 2021
The Cure For Hate—  Best quotes and big ideas

The Cure For Hate: Best quotes and big ideas

The Cure For Hate tells the story of Tony McAleer as he goes from Neo-Nazi to becoming a voice for peace and unity, and everything he learns along the way.

Book summaries and quotes
Jun 13, 2021
15 ways to finally get over someone you loved

15 ways to finally get over someone you loved

Personal experience, anecdotal evidence, and scientific experiments combine to teach you the best way to get over someone who’s broken your heart.

Dating attraction and romantic relationships
Feb 19, 2021
How to be an attractive man (no-BS guide)

How to be an attractive man (no-BS guide)

What are the 20% of things responsible for 80% of your attractiveness and success with women? Learn all the skills and habits you need to be more attractive.

Dating attraction and romantic relationships
Dec 20, 2020
6 signs of mental and emotional maturity

6 signs of mental and emotional maturity

How do you become more mature and improve your quality of life? Here are 6 major signs of mental and emotional maturity that you can start to follow.

Masculinity identity and male development
Apr 04, 2020
My experience getting an FUE hair transplant

My experience getting an FUE hair transplant

I detail my experience getting 3200 grafts of hair transplanted in an FUE hair restoration procedure. Before/after and timeline photos included.

Grooming and appearance
Feb 10, 2020
Relationship and dating advice for men— 12 rules

Relationship and dating advice for men: 12 rules

Not every guy wants to be a lifelong playboy, so I’m here to teach men how to have a happy relationship.

Dating attraction and romantic relationships
Nov 17, 2019
The 31 ways to be a better man

The 31 ways to be a better man

These are 30 lessons I’ve learned about becoming a better man. I’m not the best version, but I’ve Improved and this guide can help you too.

Masculinity identity and male development
Sep 17, 2016
You can't force relationships to develop

You can’t force relationships to develop

Learn why you can’t force love. Impatient, insecure, or damaged people try to force a relationship to develop quickly.

Dating attraction and romantic relationships
Jun 30, 2016
How to get into a relationship

How to get into a relationship

If you can’t spot the red flags, you’re in big trouble. This article teaches men how to effectively vet women and successfully get into a relationship.

Dating attraction and romantic relationships
Apr 19, 2016
8 secrets to being way more competitive

8 secrets to being way more competitive

Everyone thinks they’re competitive, but they aren’t. They just like to win. This list teaches you how to be more competitive.

Masculinity identity and male development
Nov 06, 2015