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Learn How Musashi’s Dokkodo Taught To Conquer My Fears and Control My Emotions

Learn How Musashi’s Dokkodo Taught To Conquer My Fears and Control My Emotions

Learn emotional control from legendary samurai Musashi’s Dokkodo: Accept reality, embrace discomfort, ignore others’ opinions, and live by a code of honor. Battle-tested wisdom for modern stress management.

Book quotes and summaries
Nov 14, 2024
Stop Swallowing Your Words

Stop Swallowing Your Words

Learn how professional voice training, alongside activities like boxing and karaoke, can help address deep-rooted trauma responses and improve confidence in both personal and professional settings.

Performance enhancement
Nov 06, 2024
What everyone is missing about The Art of War

What everyone is missing about The Art of War

See how the concepts from the Art of War can help you adapt to changing circumstances, prepare for unexpected encounters, know yourself better, and strategically control information.

Book quotes and summaries
Oct 16, 2024
Self-discipline leads to self-respect

Self-discipline leads to self-respect

Self-discipline and self-respect are intimately related. When you build up one, you build up the other. This post explains why and I give you an example of how it helped me to get sober.

Hard lessons
Sep 23, 2024
What boxing taught me about resilience

What boxing taught me about resilience

Boxing is the most difficult thing you can do, and from my experiences, I learned what I learned about building resilience. Resilience is built by doing difficult things repeatedly.

Boxing
Sep 17, 2024
The book made me do it—why I'm boxing again

The book made me do it—why I’m boxing again

I hope this post ages well. Once upon a time, I was a professional boxer. Now, at the age of 40, I’ll be fighting again. In this essay, I explain why I’m boxing and what I hope to accomplish this time around.

Boxing
Sep 16, 2024
Living in the hood

Living in the hood

These posts are a collection of my experiences growing up in the ghetto. You can find out what it’s like to live in the hood without living in the hood.

Life lessons
Aug 20, 2023
Monk Mode Review— How I changed my life with this intense productivity hack

Monk Mode Review: How I changed my life with this intense productivity hack

How I used Monk Mode to improve my boxing, get sober, and create major change in my life.

Change your perspective
Mar 23, 2023
7 things that happen when you have a baby

7 things that happen when you have a baby

I became a father for the first time in 2022. There are a lot of things you never expect. Here is my perspective on what happens when you have a baby.

Building family relationships
Mar 16, 2023
The hard way to escape the slow pull of reality's quicksand

The hard way to escape the slow pull of reality’s quicksand

Your actions set things in motion in *your* universe. You create your universe the same way you create your life.

Hard lessons
Feb 23, 2023
Alpha Brain Review by Chess Player - Does it really work?

Alpha Brain Review by Chess Player - Does it really work?

Learn more about how Alpha Brain supports memory, improves cognitive performance, and increases your mental processing speed of information.

Performance enhancement
Feb 17, 2023
25 boxing tips for amateur and pro boxing

25 boxing tips for amateur and pro boxing

This article is my collection of suggestions for anyone who wants to become a better boxer. The 25 tips are broken down into four categories.

Boxing
Feb 07, 2023
4 Reasons not to major in physics

4 Reasons not to major in physics

I love my physics degree and how it modified my thinking. With that said, here’s why you shouldn’t major in physics from someone who’s done it.

Math concepts
Feb 03, 2023
A pro boxer tells you the best boxing gloves money can buy

A pro boxer tells you the best boxing gloves money can buy

My professional recommendations for boxing gloves. In case you don’t like my suggestions, I also teach you how to pick your own fight gloves.

Boxing
Feb 02, 2023
How to build resilience (a stoic perspective)

How to build resilience (a stoic perspective)

Discover how to build resilience in life by asking yourself specific questions on a daily basis, and following the works of these philosophers.

Hard lessons
Jan 28, 2023
Here’s how to mature as a man

Here’s how to mature as a man

If I had a time machine, here’s what I’d tell my younger on how to mature as a man.

Self improvement for men
Jan 18, 2023
What happens when you learn to fight (+ benefits)

What happens when you learn to fight (+ benefits)

Learning to fight is transformative to your mind, body, and confidence. In this article you’ll understand the undeniable benefits.

Street smarts
Dec 02, 2022
Should I shave my head?— Surprising pros and cons

Should I shave my head?: Surprising pros and cons

To shave your head or not? As someone who has rocked the bald head but currently chooses not to, I give you my opinion on when you should—or shouldn’t.

How to stop balding
Dec 01, 2022
My review of Hairmetto Topical Saw Palmetto

My review of Hairmetto Topical Saw Palmetto

Hairmetto Topical Saw Palmetto is an all-natural alternative to topical finasteride. I’ve been using it in my hair loss stack for over a year.

How to stop balding
Nov 28, 2022
Here’s why boxing is the toughest sport you’ll ever learn

Here’s why boxing is the toughest sport you’ll ever learn

I’ve been a boxer for over a decade. Here’s why it’s the toughest sport to learn

Boxing
Nov 25, 2022
My experience using the derma roller for hair regrowth

My experience using the derma roller for hair regrowth

This article discusses how is used derma rolling for hair regrowth. It worked to reverse hair loss and preserve non-transplanted hairs after my FUE surgery.

How to stop balding
Nov 19, 2022
Why boxers need to take creatine

Why boxers need to take creatine

A comprehensive review of why boxers need to use creatine. It’s not just for weightlifters!

Boxing
Nov 11, 2022
Ed Latimore hair loss prevention and maintenance protocol

Ed Latimore hair loss prevention and maintenance protocol

After my FUE transplant, I needed to put together a program to keep the hair I had left. This protocol was born from what I figured out.

How to stop balding
Nov 06, 2022
My experience using topical finasteride+minoxidil spray

My experience using topical finasteride+minoxidil spray

Propecia has too many adverse effects. Rogaine doesn’t work well enough. Hair transplants are too expensive. Here is an affordable hair loss solution.

How to stop balding
Oct 27, 2022
The best face oil for men (2022)

The best face oil for men (2022)

A comprehensive review of popular men’s face oils: how they work, why you should use them, and how to pick the right one for you.

Self improvement for men
Oct 26, 2022
Why is calculus hard?

Why is calculus hard?

I failed calculus three times. On the 4th try, it clicked. I now have a BA in physics and a minor in math. Here’s how I finally learned calculus.

Math concepts
Oct 20, 2022
5 lessons from getting punched in the face

5 lessons from getting punched in the face

Getting punched in the face isn’t that bad. In fact, it can be the source of some valuable lessons. Here are five things you can learn from the experience.

Street smarts
Oct 07, 2022
My Chess.com Chess Improvement Plan

My Chess.com Chess Improvement Plan

This is a plan that I’ll be implementing to improve my rating on Chess.com in the rapid and daily games. Not for OTB but could work.

Chess
Sep 11, 2022
My experience using Gorilla Mode Dream

My experience using Gorilla Mode Dream

A comprehensive review of the Gorilla Dream sleep & recovery formula: what I think of it, how I use it, and how it compares to other popular sleep aids.

Performance enhancement
Sep 08, 2022
Miyamoto Musashi's Dokkodo— 21 Stoic rules for life

Miyamoto Musashi’s Dokkodo: 21 Stoic rules for life

In this post, I’ll find modern meaning and interpretation of Miyamoto Musashi’s short classic “Dokkodo”.

Book quotes and summaries
Sep 04, 2022
20 signs that you grew up in the hood

20 signs that you grew up in the hood

Here are 20 signs that you grew up in the hood. But if you grew up in the hood, you don’t really need these to know.

Street smarts
Aug 26, 2022
I tried mastic gum. Here’s my honest review

I tried mastic gum. Here’s my honest review

Want to develop a more masculine, attractive face? Mastic gum will not only shape your jawine, but will make you healthier. Read my review on Greek mastic gum.

Performance enhancement
Aug 19, 2022
Impossible Sleep recreates Huberman's sleep cocktail

Impossible Sleep recreates Huberman’s sleep cocktail

I haven’t been sleeping well, so I tried Impossible Sleep. Learn how this supplement can help you sleep as well.

Performance enhancement
Aug 05, 2022
How to dress a muscular male body

How to dress a muscular male body

How muscular men can enhance physical attractiveness with better clothing choices

Self improvement for men
Aug 02, 2022
My review of the Bosley Revitalizer 272 Laser Cap

My review of the Bosley Revitalizer 272 Laser Cap

I’ve been using Bosley’s 272 Revitalizer laser cap to see if this is really worth the price tag. Read my review to see if this product is worth the money.

How to stop balding
Jul 25, 2022
How does Low-Level Light Therapy (lllt) stop hair loss?

How does Low-Level Light Therapy (lllt) stop hair loss?

Low-level laser (light) is a gamechanger for men losing their hair. But how does it work? This describes how the technology works and much more.

How to stop balding
Jul 06, 2022
10 ways for any man to look taller

10 ways for any man to look taller

These style tips will not only make you look taller, but some of them may actually increase your height.

Self improvement for men
Jul 03, 2022
Business and life lessons from The Notorious B.I.G. 10 crack commandments

Business and life lessons from The Notorious B.I.G. 10 crack commandments

The Ten Crackcommandments is an education in the real, raw, viciousness of human nature. This article takes lessons from the song to apply to your entire life.

Street smarts
Jun 25, 2022
Ed Latimore's Gorilla Mode Pre-Workout Review

Ed Latimore’s Gorilla Mode Pre-Workout Review

A comprehensive review of the Gorilla Mode pre-workout: what I think of it, how I use it, and how it compares to other popular pre-workouts.

Performance enhancement
Jun 03, 2022
Drinking, college sexual assault, and cultural resistance to change

Drinking, college sexual assault, and cultural resistance to change

Drinking culture is especially dangerous for young women. However, efforts to change it are often resisted by the very people it’s meant to help.

Longevity health and performance
May 10, 2022
How to be an adult— 6 major markers of adulthood

How to be an adult: 6 major markers of adulthood

If you stop doing just these 6 things, you’ll be an adult by default. Learn which things to not do if you want to be taken seriously as a grown-up.

Hard lessons
Apr 10, 2022
Why did I start boxing?

Why did I start boxing?

In this essay, I explain why I started boxing. I think all fighters will see a bit of themselves in this post.

Boxing
Mar 09, 2022
The 7 benefits of having a rough childhood

The 7 benefits of having a rough childhood

This is for the kids growing up in broken homes, dangerous neighborhoods, and who are bullied at school. You have an advantage that can’t be taught or beat.

Street smarts
Feb 09, 2022
7 ways to be more street smart

7 ways to be more street smart

You don’t have to be in the streets to be street smart, but you’ll get taken advantage of if you aren’t. Read this to learn how to be street smarter.

Street smarts
Feb 04, 2022
I took Gorilla Mind Smooth for 1 year—here’s what happened

I took Gorilla Mind Smooth for 1 year—here’s what happened

A comprehensive review of the Gorilla Mind Smooth nootropic formula: what I think of it, how I use it, and how it compares to other popular nootropics.

Performance enhancement
Jan 12, 2022
5 reasons why I quit boxing with only one loss

5 reasons why I quit boxing with only one loss

I explain the harsh truth of the boxing game and the factors that lead me to hang up the gloves for good.

Boxing
Jan 06, 2022
How to get into amateur or professional boxing

How to get into amateur or professional boxing

From my 12-year boxing career (6 years an amateur boxer, 6 years a professional boxer) I break down everything you need to know to get into boxing.

Boxing
Dec 22, 2021
How to increase willpower (the easiest way to break bad habits)

How to increase willpower (the easiest way to break bad habits)

Learn how to increase willpower so you can break bad habits, build new habits, and achieve your goals faster.

Sobriety
Oct 11, 2021
Why do I keep relapsing? (how to stop for good)

Why do I keep relapsing? (how to stop for good)

Overcoming an addiction can be hard. But it doesn’t have to be if you implement these four strategies for avoiding relapses.

Hard lessons
Oct 05, 2021
5 things I learned growing up in the projects

5 things I learned growing up in the projects

Growing up in the projects is rough. I managed to get out, but these lessons I learned in the ghetto will stay with me forever.

Street smarts
May 26, 2021
9 years of sobriety— observations and benefits

9 years of sobriety: observations and benefits

A lot of things happen when you stop drinking alcohol. Here are 8 benefits I’ve observed from 9 years of sobriety.

Sober life
May 03, 2021
8 ways boxing will transform your life

8 ways boxing will transform your life

I’ve been a boxer for over 10 years, and nothing has changed my life more than boxing. This is a list of reasons why you should start boxing today.

Boxing
May 03, 2021
How to overcome fear— 7 lessons from boxing

How to overcome fear: 7 lessons from boxing

A boxing match exposes you to the possibility of death, dismemberment, and embarrassment. The same way I overcame those fears can work for anyone. Learn how.

Boxing
Mar 21, 2021
The 3 biggest reasons why people complain

The 3 biggest reasons why people complain

The problem with complaining is that it makes you focus on the problem rather than the solution. Learn how to fix this fatal flaw.

How to control your emotions
Mar 10, 2021
The easy 4 step problem-solving process (+ examples)

The easy 4 step problem-solving process (+ examples)

This is the 4 step problem-solving process that I taught to my students for math problems, but it works for academic and social problems as well.

Chess math and language
Mar 07, 2021
The 4 secret reasons why college is a huge waste of time

The 4 secret reasons why college is a huge waste of time

In this day and age, college is a bad idea for so many reasons. In this article, I tell you the four major ones AND give you some alternatives.

Chess math and language
Jan 11, 2021
How to get your life together— 10 Practical steps to organize, improve, and transform your life

How to get your life together: 10 Practical steps to organize, improve, and transform your life

Learn how to get your life together with actionable tips and strategies to help you organize, improve, and transform your yourself.

Change your perspective
Jan 11, 2021
Life's not fair. How to deal with it.

Life’s not fair. How to deal with it.

Life is fair because it’s unfair to everyone. Learn how to take the unfair lemons in life and make lemonade. This is a skill that will change your life.

Living in the hood
Jan 10, 2021
Why you have to keep pushing through the pain

Why you have to keep pushing through the pain

You learn the most about yourself when you push through pain. These are some of the lessons that can’t be taught.

Hard lessons
Nov 15, 2020
7 reasons why writing is important

7 reasons why writing is important

There is no more effective method for organizing your thoughts than writing. Good writing is one of the most important skills that you can develop.

Writing skills
Nov 11, 2020
Don't do what makes you happy. Do this instead

Don’t do what makes you happy. Do this instead

Most of us can’t do what we love for money. That means we need a different way to find happiness through work. Read this to learn how.

Hard lessons
Oct 29, 2020
The difference between intuition and instinct

The difference between intuition and instinct

Intuition is the result of knowledge and knowledge is the result of experience. Instinct is innate. Learn the advantages of both.

Hard lessons
Oct 14, 2020
How to win a fight to the death

How to win a fight to the death

Fighting to the death teaches you a lot about life. Violence has a lot to teach us all. I learned from both street fights and boxing matches.

Boxing
Oct 10, 2020
Review of the Wim Hof Breathing Method

Review of the Wim Hof Breathing Method

After purchasing the Wim Hof video course, I have no regrets. Here is my comprehensive review of the Wim Hof breathing method and technique.

Mental toughness
Oct 06, 2020
How to train for a boxing match— Insights from a pro

How to train for a boxing match: Insights from a pro

Fighting is easy. Fighting is fun. What’s hard is training for the fight. What’s miserable is training for the fight.

Boxing
Sep 07, 2020
6 steps to quit drinking on your own

6 steps to quit drinking on your own

Tired of struggling with alcohol? This post will show you how to take a break from booze so you can get your physical, emotional, and mental health in order.

Sober life
Jul 13, 2020
5 lessons from working at a homeless shelter

5 lessons from working at a homeless shelter

I once worked at a men’s homeless shelter. Here are five powerful lessons I learned from homeless people.

Street smarts
Jun 15, 2020
How to hustle like a crackhead

How to hustle like a crackhead

You don’t have to smoke crack to get the crackhead hustle, work ethic, and mindset. Read on to learn how.

Street smarts
Feb 18, 2020
My experience getting an FUE hair transplant

My experience getting an FUE hair transplant

I detail my experience getting 3200 grafts of hair transplanted in an FUE hair restoration procedure. Before/after and timeline photos included.

How to stop balding
Feb 10, 2020
5 reasons you're broke— How to stop being poor

5 reasons you’re broke: How to stop being poor

Why was I broke? I was poor because of the problems on this list. If you don’t have enough money, learn the unsuspecting reasons why.

Street smarts
Jan 28, 2020
Why am I so unhappy? (5 reasons and real solutions)

Why am I so unhappy? (5 reasons and real solutions)

Everyone wants to be happy. But so few people are. This post explores why you aren’t excited about your life and what to do about it.

Hard lessons
Oct 16, 2019
8 ways to stop caring about what people think

8 ways to stop caring about what people think

I used to care what everyone else thought about me. Getting over the fear of judgment was one of the best things I ever did. Here’s how you can too.

Hard lessons
Nov 27, 2017
9 lessons from living by crackheads & crack dealers

9 lessons from living by crackheads & crack dealers

I grew up in the projects and learned a lot about crackheads and crack dealers. Here are some little-known facts about them.

Living in the hood
Mar 06, 2017
How to change your life in 10 months— 10 steps

How to change your life in 10 months: 10 steps

I was once a broke alcoholic. Then I changed my life. Now I’m a sober top 1% earner. Here are the 10 things I did to change my life.

Hard lessons
Feb 21, 2017
6 reasons to be grateful

6 reasons to be grateful

Gratitude can make any situation better, but only if you understand it. Learn how and why to express gratitude.

Hard lessons
Dec 07, 2016
Hard work beats talent

Hard work beats talent

Hard work will always beat talent. In this article, learn why and how to work harder than the competition.

Hard lessons
Oct 11, 2016
8 lessons from losing a fight

8 lessons from losing a fight

You learn more valuable life lessons losing than you do from winning. These are 8 valuable lessons I learned from getting knocked out in front of the world.

Boxing
Oct 01, 2016
The 31 ways to be a better man

The 31 ways to be a better man

These are 30 lessons I’ve learned about becoming a better man. I’m not the best version, but I’ve Improved and this guide can help you too.

Self improvement for men
Sep 17, 2016
Best books on the mental and emotional side of fighting

Best books on the mental and emotional side of fighting

A curated list of the most influential, memorable, and instructive books that I have read over my entire life.

Book quotes and summaries
Sep 14, 2016
Lessons from the ghetto— willingness to fight

Lessons from the ghetto: willingness to fight

Fighting in the hood is always about more than just fighting. The following is an important lesson I learned from living and fighting in the hood.

Street smarts
Dec 04, 2015
8 secrets to being way more competitive

8 secrets to being way more competitive

Everyone thinks they’re competitive, but they aren’t. They just like to win. This list teaches you how to be more competitive.

Boxing
Nov 06, 2015
No one gives a shit about you

No one gives a shit about you

You ask yourself, “Why nobody gives a damn about me?” I have the answer. No one cares about you. It’s not personal. It’s just human nature.

Living in the hood
Oct 29, 2015