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Is recovery from addiction possible?

Is recovery from addiction possible?

After 10 years of sobriety, I tell you if I’m recovered and give my take on if recovery is possible at all.

Getting sober
Mar 27, 2024
The value of hard things

The value of hard things

Suffering a setback makes you more rigid and resilient. Thick skin is necessary if you want to survive in the world. This is why you need to do hard things.

Mar 14, 2024
5 metaphors from physics and calculus on happiness

5 metaphors from physics and calculus on happiness

I’ve figured out how to be a happy person despite dealing with setbacks. Learn how to increase your happiness or get it back if you’ve been knocked down.

Feb 22, 2024
How human behavior is subject to inflation

How human behavior is subject to inflation

If you’re 35 and still struggling with the challenges of a 20-year-old, you’ve lost 15 years to lifestyle inflation. You’ve gotten socially poorer.

Feb 08, 2024
11 reasons why we can't have nice things

11 reasons why we can’t have nice things

11 short reasons why humanity is doomed and we can’t have nice things. If we could fix even 2 of these our planet would become unrecognizable in the best way.

Dec 26, 2023
The Dichotomy of Control— A Street Smart Survival Tactic

The Dichotomy of Control: A Street Smart Survival Tactic

Dichtomoty of control is the practice of focusing on what you can control and ignoring the rest. Learn how.

Nov 03, 2023
Dream Job or Pipe Dream? How to know if you're just an amateur or a bonafide pro

Dream Job or Pipe Dream? How to know if you’re just an amateur or a bonafide pro

“Amateurs think talent and dumb luck are big factors in achieving good outcomes. Or they believe that bad outcomes are the result of bad luck.”

Oct 26, 2023
Most Self-Help Is BS. How to Become Unrecognizable in Just 1 Year

Most Self-Help Is BS. How to Become Unrecognizable in Just 1 Year

The journey requires sacrifice, but the rewards are great. Avoid shortcuts that promise easy transformation. Embrace the trials that deliver real change.

Sep 21, 2023
The difference between being productive and busy

The difference between being productive and busy

Are you busy wasting time or are you productive? It can be difficult to know the difference, but learn how in this article.

Sep 06, 2023
Art vs Business

Art vs Business

“The best thing to do is create the highest quality product possible. Whatever you do, try to be the best at it and make sure you get better every day.”

Aug 30, 2023
5 steps to control your temper and stop being scared

5 steps to control your temper and stop being scared

You either control your emotions, or your emotions will control you. Learn how to control your temper for a better life.

Aug 21, 2023
Living in the hood

Living in the hood

These posts are a collection of my experiences growing up in the ghetto. You can find out what it’s like to live in the hood without living in the hood.

Life lessons
Aug 20, 2023
How to focus better and improve concentration

How to focus better and improve concentration

Successful people use these methods to eliminate distractions, do more work in less time, overcome a lack of sleep, and increase productivity.

Jul 26, 2023
Your outrage makes the media rich

Your outrage makes the media rich

The media creates division because division creates engagement, and engagement drives dollars. Learn how it works and how to avoid it.

Jul 19, 2023
Are you tired of the sea of bullshit, scams, and hustles on the internet?

Are you tired of the sea of bullshit, scams, and hustles on the internet?

Be careful who you trust on the internet. Many are hypocrites and, in several cases, outright liars. Here’s how to know who’s real and who’s fake.

May 23, 2023
Everyone wants to live the good life

Everyone wants to live the good life

if you want a good life but are afraid to do the work required to attain it, then you’re delusional. Here’s how to stop lying to yourself and get results.

May 03, 2023
The Fear-Preparation-Familiarity Feedback Loop— How to stop being afraid of anything

The Fear-Preparation-Familiarity Feedback Loop: How to stop being afraid of anything

The best way to deal with fear is to get ready for what you’re afraid of. Learn more about facing your fears in this article.

Apr 25, 2023
The Priceless Path to True Happiness—The Surprising Limits of Money and Material Possessions

The Priceless Path to True Happiness—The Surprising Limits of Money and Material Possessions

​Money only solves your money problems. Once your health and safety are taken care of, more money won’t do much to improve your quality of life.

Apr 17, 2023
The Reality of Self-Care— It's a Process, Not a Quick Fix

The Reality of Self-Care: It’s a Process, Not a Quick Fix

Self-care is really self-improvement, and self-improvement is challenging. Here’s how to know what self-care really looks like.

Apr 10, 2023
Want to put your life on the fast track? Take on bigger responsibilities

Want to put your life on the fast track? Take on bigger responsibilities

The easiest to be more productive is to take on greater responsibility. This is counterintuitive, but it fuels greatness.

Apr 03, 2023
Monk Mode Review— How I changed my life with this intense productivity hack

Monk Mode Review: How I changed my life with this intense productivity hack

How I used Monk Mode to improve my boxing, get sober, and create major change in my life.

Change your perspective
Mar 23, 2023
7 things that happen when you have a baby

7 things that happen when you have a baby

I became a father for the first time in 2022. There are a lot of things you never expect. Here is my perspective on what happens when you have a baby.

Change your perspective
Mar 16, 2023
Why old friendships can be like scabs and scars

Why old friendships can be like scabs and scars

There comes a point in every person’s development where they outgrow old friendships. Here are the signs.

Mar 08, 2023
The hard way to escape the slow pull of reality's quicksand

The hard way to escape the slow pull of reality’s quicksand

Your actions set things in motion in *your* universe. You create your universe the same way you create your life.

Feb 23, 2023
Alpha Brain Review by Chess Player - Does it really work?

Alpha Brain Review by Chess Player - Does it really work?

Learn more about how Alpha Brain supports memory, improves cognitive performance, and increases your mental processing speed of information.

How to become superhuman
Feb 17, 2023
25 boxing tips for amateur and pro boxing

25 boxing tips for amateur and pro boxing

This article is my collection of suggestions for anyone who wants to become a better boxer. The 25 tips are broken down into four categories.

Longevity health and performance
Feb 07, 2023
4 Reasons not to major in physics

4 Reasons not to major in physics

I love my physics degree and how it modified my thinking. With that said, here’s why you shouldn’t major in physics from someone who’s done it.

Math concepts
Feb 03, 2023
A pro boxer tells you the best boxing gloves money can buy

A pro boxer tells you the best boxing gloves money can buy

My professional recommendations for boxing gloves. In case you don’t like my suggestions, I also teach you how to pick your own fight gloves.

Longevity health and performance
Feb 02, 2023
How to build resilience (a stoic perspective)

How to build resilience (a stoic perspective)

Discover how to build resilience in life by asking yourself specific questions on a daily basis, and following the works of these philosophers.

Change your perspective
Jan 28, 2023
Here’s how to mature as a man

Here’s how to mature as a man

If I had a time machine, here’s what I’d tell my younger on how to mature as a man.

Longevity health and performance
Jan 18, 2023
What happens when you learn to fight (+ benefits)

What happens when you learn to fight (+ benefits)

Learning to fight is transformative to your mind, body, and confidence. In this article you’ll understand the undeniable benefits.

Longevity health and performance
Dec 02, 2022
Should I shave my head?— Surprising pros and cons

Should I shave my head?: Surprising pros and cons

To shave your head or not? As someone who has rocked the bald head but currently chooses not to, I give you my opinion on when you should—or shouldn’t.

How to stop balding
Dec 01, 2022
Robert Anton Wilson quotes on politics, disinformation, & conspiracy

Robert Anton Wilson quotes on politics, disinformation, & conspiracy

Despite being written in 1984, Prometheus Rising by Robert Anton Wilson has some solid predictions about the next 30 years that are startlingly accurate.

Book quotes and summaries
Nov 29, 2022
Important quotes and big ideas from George Orwell's

Important quotes and big ideas from George Orwell’s “1984”

Some people say that 2022 is more like the world of George Orwell’s “1984.” I read the book and collected quotes so you can see for yourself.

Book quotes and summaries
Nov 29, 2022
My review of Hairmetto Topical Saw Palmetto

My review of Hairmetto Topical Saw Palmetto

Hairmetto Topical Saw Palmetto is an all-natural alternative to topical finasteride. I’ve been using it in my hair loss stack for over a year.

How to stop balding
Nov 28, 2022
Here’s why boxing is the toughest sport you’ll ever learn

Here’s why boxing is the toughest sport you’ll ever learn

I’ve been a boxer for over a decade. Here’s why it’s the toughest sport to learn

Longevity health and performance
Nov 25, 2022
My experience using the derma roller for hair regrowth

My experience using the derma roller for hair regrowth

This article discusses how is used derma rolling for hair regrowth. It worked to reverse hair loss and preserve non-transplanted hairs after my FUE surgery.

How to stop balding
Nov 19, 2022
The 5 best supplements for boxing and martial arts

The 5 best supplements for boxing and martial arts

A comprehensive review of supplements for boxers and martial artists: how they work, why you should use them, and how to pick the right ones.

How to become superhuman
Nov 11, 2022
Ed Latimore hair loss prevention and maintenance protocol

Ed Latimore hair loss prevention and maintenance protocol

After my FUE transplant, I needed to put together a program to keep the hair I had left. This protocol was born from what I figured out.

How to stop balding
Nov 06, 2022
My experience using topical finasteride+minoxidil spray

My experience using topical finasteride+minoxidil spray

Propecia has too many adverse effects. Rogaine doesn’t work well enough. Hair transplants are too expensive. Here is an affordable hair loss solution.

How to stop balding
Oct 27, 2022
The best face oil for men (2022)

The best face oil for men (2022)

A comprehensive review of popular men’s face oils: how they work, why you should use them, and how to pick the right one for you.

Longevity health and performance
Oct 26, 2022
Why is calculus hard?

Why is calculus hard?

I failed calculus three times. On the 4th try, it clicked. I now have a BA in physics and a minor in math. Here’s how I finally learned calculus.

Math concepts
Oct 20, 2022
Quotes from Viktor Frankl's

Quotes from Viktor Frankl’s “Man’s Search For Meaning”

In Man’s Search For Meaning, Viktor Frankl teaches from his experiences surviving the Nazi Concentration. Here are the powerful quotes.

Book quotes and summaries
Oct 17, 2022
5 lessons from getting punched in the face

5 lessons from getting punched in the face

Getting punched in the face isn’t that bad. In fact, it can be the source of some valuable lessons. Here are five things you can learn from the experience.

Living in the hood
Oct 07, 2022
My Chess.com Chess Improvement Plan

My Chess.com Chess Improvement Plan

This is a plan that I’ll be implementing to improve my rating on Chess.com in the rapid and daily games. Not for OTB but could work.

Chess math and language
Sep 11, 2022
My experience using Gorilla Mode Dream

My experience using Gorilla Mode Dream

A comprehensive review of the Gorilla Dream sleep & recovery formula: what I think of it, how I use it, and how it compares to other popular sleep aids.

How to become superhuman
Sep 08, 2022
Miyamoto Musashi's Dokkodo— 21 Stoic rules for life

Miyamoto Musashi’s Dokkodo: 21 Stoic rules for life

In this post, I’ll find modern meaning and interpretation of Miyamoto Musashi’s short classic “Dokkodo”.

Book quotes and summaries
Sep 04, 2022
20 signs that you grew up in the hood

20 signs that you grew up in the hood

Here are 20 signs that you grew up in the hood. But if you grew up in the hood, you don’t really need these to know.

Living in the hood
Aug 26, 2022
How to learn calculus (even if you’re bad at math)

How to learn calculus (even if you’re bad at math)

I failed calculus three times. On the 4th try, it clicked. I now have a BA in physics and a minor in math. Here’s how I finally learned calculus.

Math concepts
Aug 25, 2022
I tried mastic gum. Here’s my honest review

I tried mastic gum. Here’s my honest review

Want to develop a more masculine, attractive face? Mastic gum will not only shape your jawine, but will make you healthier. Read my review on Greek mastic gum.

Longevity health and performance
Aug 19, 2022
Impossible Sleep recreates Huberman's sleep cocktail

Impossible Sleep recreates Huberman’s sleep cocktail

I haven’t been sleeping well, so I tried Impossible Sleep. Learn how this supplement can help you sleep as well.

How to become superhuman
Aug 05, 2022
5 things I learned growing up in the projects

5 things I learned growing up in the projects

Growing up in the projects is rough. I managed to get out, but these lessons I learned in the ghetto will stay with me forever.

Living in the hood
May 26, 2021
The 4 secret reasons why college is a huge waste of time

The 4 secret reasons why college is a huge waste of time

In this day and age, college is a bad idea for so many reasons. In this article, I tell you the four major ones AND give you some alternatives.

Chess math and language
Jan 11, 2021
Life's not fair. How to deal with it.

Life’s not fair. How to deal with it.

Life is fair because it’s unfair to everyone. Learn how to take the unfair lemons in life and make lemonade. This is a skill that will change your life.

Living in the hood
Jan 10, 2021
6 steps to quit drinking on your own

6 steps to quit drinking on your own

Tired of struggling with alcohol? This post will show you how to take a break from booze so you can get your physical, emotional, and mental health in order.

Longevity health and performance
Jul 13, 2020
5 lessons from working at a homeless shelter

5 lessons from working at a homeless shelter

I once worked at a men’s homeless shelter. Here are five powerful lessons I learned from homeless people.

Living in the hood
Jun 15, 2020
My experience getting an FUE hair transplant

My experience getting an FUE hair transplant

I detail my experience getting 3200 grafts of hair transplanted in an FUE hair restoration procedure. Before/after and timeline photos included.

How to stop balding
Feb 10, 2020
5 reasons you're broke— How to stop being poor

5 reasons you’re broke: How to stop being poor

Why was I broke? I was poor because of the problems on this list. If you don’t have enough money, learn the unsuspecting reasons why.

Living in the hood
Jan 28, 2020
Why am I so unhappy? (5 reasons and real solutions)

Why am I so unhappy? (5 reasons and real solutions)

Everyone wants to be happy. But so few people are. This post explores why you aren’t excited about your life and what to do about it.

How to control your emotions
Oct 16, 2019
8 ways to stop caring about what people think

8 ways to stop caring about what people think

I used to care what everyone else thought about me. Getting over the fear of judgment was one of the best things I ever did. Here’s how you can too.

How to control your emotions
Nov 27, 2017
9 lessons from living by crackheads & crack dealers

9 lessons from living by crackheads & crack dealers

I grew up in the projects and learned a lot about crackheads and crack dealers. Here are some little-known facts about them.

Living in the hood
Mar 06, 2017
How to change your life in 10 months— 10 steps

How to change your life in 10 months: 10 steps

I was once a broke alcoholic. Then I changed my life. Now I’m a sober top 1% earner. Here are the 10 things I did to change my life.

Change your perspective
Feb 21, 2017
6 reasons to be grateful

6 reasons to be grateful

Gratitude can make any situation better, but only if you understand it. Learn how and why to express gratitude.

How to control your emotions
Dec 07, 2016
Hard work beats talent

Hard work beats talent

Hard work will always beat talent. In this article, learn why and how to work harder than the competition.

Mental toughness
Oct 11, 2016
8 lessons from losing a fight

8 lessons from losing a fight

You learn more valuable life lessons losing than you do from winning. These are 8 valuable lessons I learned from getting knocked out in front of the world.

Longevity health and performance
Oct 01, 2016
The 31 ways to be a better man

The 31 ways to be a better man

These are 30 lessons I’ve learned about becoming a better man. I’m not the best version, but I’ve Improved and this guide can help you too.

Self improvement for men
Sep 17, 2016
Best books on the mental and emotional side of fighting

Best books on the mental and emotional side of fighting

A curated list of the most influential, memorable, and instructive books that I have read over my entire life.

Longevity health and performance
Sep 14, 2016
Lessons from the ghetto— willingness to fight

Lessons from the ghetto: willingness to fight

Fighting in the hood is always about more than just fighting. The following is an important lesson I learned from living and fighting in the hood.

Living in the hood
Dec 04, 2015
8 secrets to being way more competitive

8 secrets to being way more competitive

Everyone thinks they’re competitive, but they aren’t. They just like to win. This list teaches you how to be more competitive.

Longevity health and performance
Nov 06, 2015
48 boxing quotes from Ed Latimore

48 boxing quotes from Ed Latimore

Here are 48 life lessons I learned from being a boxer. You may never fight, but if you use these lessons, you’ll gain a huge advantage in the world.

Longevity health and performance
Nov 04, 2015
No one gives a shit about you

No one gives a shit about you

You ask yourself, “Why nobody gives a damn about me?” I have the answer. No one cares about you. It’s not personal. It’s just human nature.

Living in the hood
Oct 29, 2015